A word of advice in preparation for studying abroad.
Jessica,
I’m so excited for you to go to Nairobi! Come to think of it, I don’t actually know anyone else who speaks Swahili. I hope your language skills really develop over your time abroad. I’ve had friends who say it helps them immensely. Now, it’ll be fun but just make sure you take care of yourself. I don’t mean just keeping your eye out or not going where you know you’re not supposed to – I mean really be aware of how you might be treated or looked at differently when you go to Nairobi. Know that when you go as an American student, certain people might not be the friendliest to interact with. You’ll be fine; just be aware. People have mixed feelings about American visitors all over the world, even though you might not agree or haven’t taken part in any American foreign policy, know that people might make assumptions about you based on how they view the US as a whole.
Do you know how to get around? Is that something you can look into? I don’t know about you, but I have a terrible sense of direction – the last thing I’d want is for you to be lost and then not knowing how to get around in the middle of a huge city. At least you speak the language pretty well.
Also, I know it’s hard, but be conscious about how you react to things! I know you laugh at uncomfortable situations, and I would hate for something like that to come in the way of a meaningful connection. Generally, just try to consciously adapt to whatever you see in the area. They might offer you tea or food – just say yes. There may be customs that you’re not used to or that may surprise you – act cool. It’s not necessarily about copying what they do, it’s making an actual effort to rewire some parts of how you think or act to be able to mesh better with the environment that’s hosting you.
Lastly, I want to say something that may sound obvious, but I think it’s worth noting. You’re not there to study the people. You’re not there to study the place. You’re not there to study the culture. Your time there is not going to be one way, you’re not looking at it through a telescope anymore – you’re going to be in it. Every exchange you have is going to be at least a two-way road. If a third person from a different place joins a conversation, be prepared for a three-way exchange. You’re not just taking from them; you’re offering your identity, your perspectives, and your mind up to the people and places you meet along the way.
Enjoy your time there, stay in touch, and send pictures if you can!! Live it, and don’t be afraid to change.
P.S. Maybe visit me in Egypt over spring break.
